As a researcher of youth and social technologies I find it difficult to cope with cases where young people reveal too much (both in terms of semi-pornographic photos and personal information). Danah Boyd had
an interesting post about how the disappearance of two girls was allegedly connected to their use of MySpace. Which, it turned out, was not the case after all. I wholeheartedly agree with Danah - MySpace is safer than going to the mall. I'm very enthusiastic about the real social value of online interaction, and I don't believe mediated interaction supplants face-to-face interaction. I furthermore agree that it's problematic that there seems to be an exaggerated panic about the danger of online interaction. The panic is visible in a series of
articles in Aftenposten lately, though the reported case is serious and concerns a 15-year old girl who was raped by a 19-year old boy she met online. They met on
deiligst.no, later had a private IM-conversation (including the use of webcam), exchanged phone-numbers, and agreed to meet face-to-face. I understand that these rare cases are reported and discussed as a problem, even if they are the exceptions rather than the rule. The whole panic-situation proves that research is important. Mediated interaction is a natural and intergrated part in the everyday life of young people. Sharing photos online does not have to be dangerous. Chatting with strangers is usually quite undramatic. Teenagers don't regularly have private explicit web-cam shows. Yet, cases of abuse need to be taken seriously.
I guess the only sound advice we can give to worried parents is the same as ever. Be interested in what your kids are doing and don't ban use of IM, MySpace, blogs and photo-sharing services (bans will certainly
not help, though I'm not a big fan of hotornot-sites - the Norwegian
deiligst.no is a particularly ugly example). Oh, and respect their privacy: youth usually like to have a parent-free zone.
What happened to common sense.
Edit: re-reading my post confused me. Like, what am I trying to say? These troubling aspects of personal media use are not directly part of my research, though I am interested in how changing representations of subjectivitiy are visible through personally mediated expressions (e.g. text, photos). That is, 15-year olds do not post semi-nude and semi-pornographic photos of themselves only because they have the technological affordances to do so, but because what appears as legitimate representations of self seem to have changed in Western societies (or at least in Norway).